Originally Posted by icecreamISgood
I guess my question is: Do you think it is a good idea to tell him how I feel now (even though it would be selfish & intrusive of me),
(sigh) You already know the answer to this question. Don't do it. You will only appear to be groveling, and then you will be embarrassed about it later. Besides, you had a crush on him when you were a KID. Don't pretend that you would have lived happily-ever-after if only it weren't for your wicked, evil (step) parents. This is real life, not a fairy tale.