Thanx for all the advice. I'm just going to let him go. I can't deal with it and even though it's the past he'll still lie about it when he said the truth about it like he forgot what he told me. It's been a tough 4 years but I've lost 27 lbs in the last 2 months ever since I started finding things out and I've been under a lot of stress. My health is more important to me at this point. I feel like I wasted my time on someone that didn't care for me for the past 8 months. Thanx again everyone.