hi all, i've been dating this guy for several months now and my family really hates him. I have to sneak around and lie everytime i want to see him and it's gettin really old. i hate lying to my parents but i really like this guy alot and i have never had those kind of feelings for a guy before. my dad says if i keep on seeing him he will disown me and so will the rest of my family. none of my family has even tried to get to know him, they hate him because of what they hear not because of what they know and they don't like the kind of work that he does. what should i do?