Hi cheazypeaz
Not good, not good at all.
As a prelimianry step i would try to eliminate the primary source of discomfort. How likely for her to move in to your place? Okay, i guess the two basic questions that will follow this one are 1. Do you love her enough to live with her? 2. How old are you and her?
If above is not satisfactory i'd have a word with both Father and Brother and find out what is the source of grief. Personally i would handle a conversation like that in a very proffesional manner (With even minutes of the meeting). I would take all issues and grievances her father and brother have with you on board and try to improve on them (Otherwise you risk getting yourself into nasty escalations). I'm not quite sure if this is the best advice. Personally i never ever had any problems with my girlfriends parents or relatives.
Hope above helps!!!
