The guy on the internet is not a "real" person until you have met him face to face. Don't delude yourself into thinking there is more there than there actually is. Why would you consider trading in the headache you know for the headache you don't know?

You've been with your husband for 7 years, and I'm sure you've heard of the 7 year itch. That's what you have. Take two asprin and stay off the computer for awhile, and I'm sure your marital life will improve.