So this week my boyfriend came to visit and I noticed that he smelled like smoke. I asked him if he had been smoking, and he said yes. Later I found a (nearly empty) pack of cigarettes in his room.

He used to smoke a fair amount, but hasn't done it much recently. I find it kinda discusting, quite honestly. He'll go out and smoke with his buds once in a while but always showers to get the smell off before he sees me. I think the thing that bothers me the most, however, is that when I asked him if he had been smoking on a continual basis, he wouldn't talk to me. Not only that, but he would hardly look at me.

I don't know whether to try to approach the subject with him again or not. I can tell he has been kinda stressed lately, and I don't want to make matters worse (thus encouraging him to smoke more) by getting in a fight.

Has anyone else dealt with an issue like this before-having a SO with a habit you can't stand? Do I just let it be?

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