Hahaha! This post is hilarious! I never thought about how difficult it must be for a boy to ask for a blow job before; thanks for the new perspective!

But you are only 16, and I am guessing she is your age. She sounds like a smart girl to be waiting. The consequences for girls having sex are higher than for boys. Be patient, your day will come. In the meantime, why don't you just ummm... take care of business yourself before you go see her? It might relieve you of some of the urgency you are feeling.