wow...

i rest my case... u need to show her how bad it feels for u...

it's actually not fair to YOU at all...

shur.. she's not "ready" yet.. which in other words means.. she's not going to have sex with u, caz she's been told it's going to hurt.. and that's IT!!! period, end of discussion, she could care less how u feel about it...

what u CAN do.. is leave her.. and if sex is the only thing that matters to u.. trust me.. by 16, there'er not that many girls that haven't taken that first step..

BUT.. if u really do love her.. you ARE going to wait this out.. no matter how crazy it's driving u.. and just for shh! referance.. there's really no worst feeling.. so stop giving lilwing all that crap... i agree with almost all your other posts on LF.. but not here..

lilwing.. u need to take control of the situation... stop the contact.. if she asks y.. give her an abstract answer like (u know exactly y).. never answer y.. she's not stupid... she'll know y.. but she'll only want YOU to say it.. so that she can start telling u y why she's not going to...

therefor.. don't tell her y.. until she breaks... it sounds evil.. but it's really not as evil as having her bf sit there, going blue, putting things up his procto.. and trying on his mom's ewww man.. wtf.. seriously...

if she really doesn't wanna aknowladge that she gets the point.. and u still like her.. u have to tell her... (i'm talking about months from now..)

if u still feel like you're going crazy.. and she's really not willing to compromise with u at all... then tell her it's over... and u shouldn't feel bad... u respect her enough to supress ur urges up to a point... but ur not going to turn gay.. just caz she's "not ready" yet.. and if she's the type of person that wants everything to be beneficial for HER only.. then.. sorry.. i really think u need to find someone else..

oh... n' please... put ur mom's stuff back in their place...

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