There is so much nonsense flying around on this thread, I don't even know where to begin.

About the girl not wanting to have sex yet: Well, perhaps she recognizes that lilwing is already looking around at whatever else is out there. Frankly, that would be smart on her part. She would likely f*ck him, and he's going to move on anyway, and then she would have given it up for nothing. Teenage boys are not skilled enough to actually PROVIDE pleasure to girls, and girls at this age do not normally have anywhere NEAR the sex drive of teenage boys, so for her to do it with him IS a gift. All she probably wants is a boy's attention right now. Most importantly, just because Lilwing is horny does not obligate her to provide sexual gratification. She is not a blow-up doll.

About her "turning Lilwing gay" - um, well he has already posted that he thinks he is bisexual (as I remember it). Besides, you can't "turn" anyone gay.

About the consequences being greater for girls - duh! Not only do girls have to live with the constant threat of pregnancy and having the boy subsequently abandon her, they are also emotionally tied to their vaginas. When they sleep with someone, it is normally more than simply an act of sex, but rather is an act of deep emotional attachment. YOu boys will do it with anyone who is willing when you are teenagers, but normal girls do it with boys they think they love, so there is a larger risk of heartbreak.