shh! - tell me about it.. thats why im so confused about the whole situation. Normally its the male that gets sleepy and rolls over and goes to sleep... which I hate and would never do....not really sure what to do. and no shes not religious. She unwilling to reciprocate for alot of things actually...such as tell me how she feels for me etc. "Just assume everything is fine till I say so". *shrugs*. I love her to pieces...but thats slowly fading.