Um yep, was with the guy for 10 years...
After so many break ups still getting back together and thinking we would EVENTUALLY get married(asshole) we finally ended our hell after 10 years. It was great for the few first years, but then, med school, bla blah, I was his support through all of that, and 6 months before officially becoming a Dr. OMFG, cliche here, he found someone else. HELL I'm happy it's done and moved on, much better fishies in the sea for me....

Basically people shouldn't have to work THAT hard for a relationship to work, if so, somethings wrong, and get out!

Goodluck in whatever your plans may be buddy...

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