ok this whole lube thing seems like it could be it...we wear condoms and tha couple of times we havent, it didnt hurt her...and just for tha record, i wasn't trying to say i was well endowed i was just askin cause im not sure of the average size and i personally thought i was small(but thats prolly cause ive seen so much porn lol) thanks for yalls comments but another quick question because i know absolutly nutin about lube......is there a certain kind i should buy? like like look for it to say sumtin special on it? thanx