Because they are no threat, women know exactly what they are getting with men like this. With a guy like this women are in the driver's seat, call the shots, set the mood and have the locus of control. They don't have to be nervous, set excited, or have any expectations.

When men like us, they are dealing with master Jedi's. There is a good chance they will fall in love with us, and then become hurt if it does not materialize. Many women would rather settle for a sure thing, then chance it on a dream guy that they would have to work for.

Girls date guys like this, but they dream of guys like us. Go out and find one, take the chance, and make the move. Don't wait for life to come to you.