Where it's coming from Junsui, IMHO, is that Bluevette is, at core, a homophobic, pontificating, pompous ass whose truly charming romantic baiting I'd pity any woman's becoming a victim of. And since he's, evidently, removed the post which first prompted me to say that, he also tries to take back what he says and this thread makes even less sense than the absurdity of his remarks already rendered it. But, I could be wrong. Maybe he's not an ass. Maybe he's just so insecure in his self-righteousness that he needs to be accepted at any cost. Even if it means he has to misrepresent himself to acquire affection, or try to sweep under the excuse of a "wrong thread" slips of tongue that might invite criticism. Indicates, to me, a slippery personality in which I'd be highly cautious of placing any of my trust or confidence.

Wondering: Do not seek to give any hints to or acquire any confirmations from the object of your affection. Just enjoy to the fullest whatever IS there. If anything more is possible, it will emerge from that on its own, without any help -- or interference -- from you.

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