For me, approachable is all about the body language, sort of like what whayward was saying. I tend to gravitate towards men with a sense of ease about them, with genuine smiles.

As for finding guys more attracted to you all of a sudden Rosebud...I've always found that it really has to do with your attitude, and how you're feeling about yourself. All the things you think and feel manifest themselves physically.....and will tell people whether you are 'approachable' or not. Let's call it a 'good vibe'. I've found I can go out in less than flattering clothes, no makeup and messy hair, and still get plenty of attention on days when I'm kind of feeling great about the world. Then I'll have nights where I'm dressed to the nines and depressed and...nothing.