well we are both in our mid 20's We have been in a 2 year on and off relationship but this time we decided to be stedy.

Here is what she told me today

her: i am not saying i want to break up, but what i am saying the intensity of it scares me....its like it is so intense now that it can die out fast.
me: i dont agree
her: ok
her: maybe it is just me
me: i need to know how u feel about me
her: you know i love you

abit down the disscussion

me: i love you
her: i love you too.
her: im just scared and have to go
her: will be back in 30 minutes
me: I want to have you feel comfortable, I just need to know how
her: i know baby,
her: its not that i dont feel comfortable, i just wanted to talk
her: you always said that if i feel anything then i should tell you
her: and i did
me: you know we can talk when ever you like
her: i know, i will be back in bit
me: ok
me: i love you
her: i love you too


i dont know what i should do. I know i amm her first and only real love even though she has a daughter. please help