Any titles in particular, W?

CircleC, i've been following the thread, but haven't really found anything to add to Ws comments. I will say that I've also been where you are, but more on the females side, and I can tell you that Haywards telling you like it is. But you already knew all this I suspect... you just need to decide to flip that "mental switch" from discomfort to acceptance. Its all you can do for now.