Yes..it can be scary...but it can also be exciting. Living alone is not a horrible thing. Okay...my daughter lives with me and I do have a man in my life...but..I don't have a man living in my home.

When I told my ex that I was unhappy and wanted to break up...I didn't do it to hurt him, but to save myself. We had slept in seperate rooms for at least five years...hadn't had sex in longer than that...fought every night...Home was like hell...no peace at all. Wasn't good for me...my child...and even though he won't admitt it...wasn't good for him either.

I'm not saying that ya'll have to break-up...but it does sound more like you're roomies instead of a couple...and ya both deserve better...and the only way to have it better...is to make some changes.

And about people being interested in you...just wait till you're happy with your life and yourself...see all the interest you get then!

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