Thank you

The best advise I can offer is to try to think through everything you are feeling and sensing. Identify what is based on emotions, what is based on logic... and what your "inner voice" is trying to tell you. In a state of turmoil, they are different things altogether.

When you make a good decision in your life, you feel confident and upbeat about it. You make your move without any doubts at all. It's a great feeling.

When you make a bad decision in your life, you have doubts - and you move forward with caution. You usually ignore that little voice telling you that this isnt such a good idea, and you dont even tell anyone else most of the time. But you actually have to convince yourself that you are making the right decision. And you rationalize. "Besides, xyz" you say to yourself.

When you make a good decision, you dont. There's no question about it.