Well,
ok... see, I've seen all these ocasions that the girl goes out without BF and sees somebody there... they start liking each other and next thing you know is her breaking up with you over a small thing... 2 years later you see them together and find everything out. yeah, damn that is the reason... maybe that's the same reason she has for me going to our car club... I don't wanna loose her, but I don't wanna hear the "I'm not gonna go" response from her either, that's just plain ignorant. I stopped going to the meet that meant alot to me just because she wasn't OK with it... no question I asked her at all.