You both must stop whatever it is which is driving you to try to control each other's lives. That's a SURE FIRE recipe for ending the relationship. If you can't trust each other's judgment when you're not in each other's sight, then you don't need to be together and SHOULDN'T be together. Fact is, as long as trust and confidence in each other isn't there, you really AREN'T together in the first place. You're just play-acting at being together.

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