Originally Posted by natashab
Trouble is, I care too much about what people think
I think its good to care what people think. Sometimes. Not if it stops you from doing what you TRULY want to do.(As long as you're not hurting anyone) I don't think you'll hurt him. However, here is what might happen. He'll think you are a freak, a real plaything. You eventually decide that you have explored enough. You want to settle down. And not with him. This guy is HOOKED. He's been gettin' freaky lovin' without commitment. Hard to let go of. Could be an ugly situation. You have to be upfront and honest with him now. And even full disclosure doesn't guarantee his cooperation down the road. Make sure you know a bit about this guy's past before you tie him into a sex romp. Make sure he can handle it. Especially the ending.