You must pay attention to her. You can't force her to desire you. Desire is brought on from whether the other person has interests in you or not. If they have a lot of interest in you, then they will most likely desire you. Also remember one thing.

If you don't pay attention to her, someone else will.

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Experience is never gained until just after you needed it.

Luck - That is where opprotunity meets preperation.