I felt similarly with my first love. And it took me YEARS AND YEARS to realize it wasn't ever going to work. Big relief when I did though. As for your situation, I'll try not to preach too much advice to you so I'll just give my opinion. It sounds kind of odd that you two could be so close then she tries to pull a "high and mighty" by claiming she's a "working class socialite". That's a really lame term to make her feel all grown up by the way. I mean there's nothing wrong with living with her parents, but she shouldn't think she's the shit and now needs to replace you. That just seems immature to me. From what I read I would have to say that it's understandable the way you are feeling and that often in these situations when a guy falls in love with the girl, the girl really likes to put you through a lot of bullshit (speaking from past experience as well) and you just want to be able to slap them and make them see how right you and her are. Well, I'll refrain from advice to keep with your wishes, but I wish you luck man. I know where you're at with all this.

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