Thanks, Goo. I've heard it from alot of people -- that it's ok to feel the way that I do but for some reason it means alot more from a total stranger, especially one who has been through somthing similar. Man, I've heard alot of different stories now too,about guys in similar situations, and I wonder if you saw some of the same, Goo. Like stories about how the guy just left em' cause they knew the girl wasn't worth it and stories where the guy held on and it eventually worked out and maybe the guy was even more appreciated after that. I've come to the conclusion that only I can decide wheteher she's worth the bullshit, but apparently, you must have thought that too (she was worth it) or else you wouldn't have held on so long. Even now, how can you be so sure about it one way when you were once so sure that she was it. I'm definitely scared of this, too. Is she really good enough or is it a figment of my imagination -- hell, is anybody good enough for this. I want to believe that some people are and that she is. I want to, but I guess I can never be sure. Fortunately, I will be graduating soon and I will probably not make the decision to move close to her if things do not get better. The problem is will she give me just enough rope to hang myself by leading me to believe it's something she wants only to pull the carpet out from under me once I'm stuck. Maybe I just need to do what's best for me and not go there and just let this whole thing unravel but I feel like such a copout. Maybe she has already copped out. What's your opinion on this, Goo?