It helps. She definitely is taking me for granted. Whether or not it's realistic, I really am waiting to find out myself. I believe if she continues to doubt us as a couple, then it will not be realistic for me to pursue it. I would just be in fantasy land if I continued like this. On the other hand, is it realistic of me to believe that she could come around? Well, it would take alot of growing up on her part and I sure would need alot of faith -- it's a tuff pill to swallow, either way. It does sound to me like you made the right decision for you, though. I think it will be soon when I can see that she is not willing to change or that she is trying. I'll base my decisions on what I see from her. Thanks again Zekk, this is good.