Originally Posted by Only-virgins
I wish I could dream as often as you. I seem to get them very rarely. I usually struggle to fall asleep and when I do I just wake up the next morning
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Try this. And dont laugh - and you dont have to tell me if it works for you LOL:
Eat something chocolate, or drink a half a cup of coffee before you go to bed. Then masturbate (usually helps you fall asleep quicker).
Keep a notepad by your bed and write your dreams (if you recall them) the minute you wake. Before you get out of bed. If you get up and around first, they disappear (like a morning fog).
Cant say it'll work for you. I'm a big dreamer by default. But the chocolate thing makes it even more intense. (the m part is just for getting yourself to sleep faster LOL)
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
Your other dream with the daughter. Crazy to see the opposite of what it is in the awake state.
I agree. But this particular dream was taking a situation I am very sensitive about... and using it to work out other things altogether. Confirming the fact that I am NOT alone in my current struggles. Both of my ex husbands were in the dream too - and very kind. Its funny because they were offering me personal items (guitars, and other pieces of monetary value). I woke up feeling very comforted - and very much NOT alone in my life. In addition to making new friends lately... I've also very recently began talking with my family again. I think this dream was telling me that its time to accept love and help from those sources - - even if I've already proven I can make it on my own.
(edited to add: ) The "making it on my own stuff" I'm already past proving to myself. I did that. Accomplished. Can cross it off the list. I think this dream was symbolic of the fact that I'm ready to move on from that in my life. That everything is already in place - its just a matter of me accepting it, and making the transformation.
Anyway, if you like dream stuff, you'll love this story. I'll post it next
