Hello Everyone,

I am thankful to find this site as there are many wonderful people as yourselves to offer advice to others. Essentially, my situation is I have been dating a girl for about 2 months now and we have established we are in a relationship. She asked if I consider her my girlfriend and I agreed and she said she would consider me her BF to her friends etc.

That being said I find it strange that we talk very briefly during the day only in the evenings or late at night. Often I am tired and she has work / school but I figured if you are in a relationship you should make an effort to talk to the person or want to see them. I am busy as well but I mean I txt message her or call her but sometimes I find I am doing way to much so I back off.

A couple times I told her lets go do something she agrees but then I never hear her say "I want to see you" ... As the Man should I be putting in effort in the beggining till she feels comofrtable. I just hate games thats all and I am playing it now slightly because I don't want to come across needy (I see her once a week) thats kind of casual dating I think. I travel and stuff for work but still try my best. Should I pull away or start dating this other girl I met. I want to be straight up with her but at the same time not show her I am tooo Into her ... She expressed interest in me tons in the beggining now this BS.

Help Folks!

Thanks in advance!