Clynn and All,

Yesterday she came over and we cooked dinner together and had a nice candlelight dinner. (I put alot of effort in the Decor, flowers) it was actually quite perfect. It was fun and we talked etc ... We then watched a movie together in which she layed on me , we made out as usual but I slowly tried to get my hands into her bra and I was just about their but she stopped me and said "No. Not right now". I kinda felt rejected and wierded out but smiled and went on with the night. I really just felt like droppin her home at that point cause I was embarassed slightly but I mean if physical attraction isn't their why make out with me n stuff.
She said "I have a really good time with you" ... she actually fell asleep on me, becuase she said I was "comfortable". Why is she takin it this slow this is our second month of going out and probably 10-12 dates. Today we were suppose to go skating as she was going to call in sick to work but she says she will call me back and 1 hour later tells me that she had to go in for a bit and we can go after 1pm.I can't sit here and waste my day based on her, I figure in the beggining if the chemistry is their you should be all enthused and really want to see the person excited almost blissful. I feel that way with her to a certain degree but she isn't showing any effort such as "I want to see you" or I am going to come see you.

Is she having more fun with me then really into me? ... Should I cancel on her now that I have to taylor my day around her? ... Time to move on? ... I like this girl but want to see her excited and enthused about seeing me. I think my effort shows I am into her, time to reciprocate. Somebody help!... thanks all