so i just go and forget about him? move to europe and just vanish? He is not a bad guy at all. Its just, its too hard to live without him to guide me. my parents has basically abondoned me and my friends have their own life going on. I have dated many young guys but 90% of them are just playing around and you know just want sex. I am too tired of playing around and not being serious. I just want to settle down (you know get married and stuff). But seems like he is not the right person for that mirriage dream of mine. (LOL) although he has the perfect personality of the guy that i want. His daughter has always told me that i am not for his dad and always telling me that his dad is just using me as his companion which i think she is just ****in around me and want to piss me off. I find those things challenging and make me stay with him just to prove to her that she is so wrong and stupid for judging people becuz she is jealous or something. i dont know what her motives are but i dont like it and she always critisizes me. I swear I am not that ugly but it is too hard to find a serious guy that want to be married and settle down. How would i fix this?