shouldn't matter if you're poor; even better.

Tell him you're not going to clean unless he helps or pays for a service. then let it all go.

I tried that when I had roomates in college; they never cleaned so I said I wasn't cleaning anymore until after they did it. Well, dishes and garbage piled up for weeks. They went out and bought plastic plates/cups etc. So the plan kinda back-fired on me.

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