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Old 10-12-05, 06:00 PM
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being led on?
hi ok i'll give you a rundown of what's happened - it's really confused me and I just want some advice as to what this guy wants and/or what I should do.

Ok, so i've been kind of getting to know this guy for the past 6 weeks. He says he's really into me and has said loads of things to suggest that he perhaps does want a relationship like eg the other day we were talking on msn and i asked him when his birthday is and he was like 'u shud check our compatibility' and went on about it for quite a while. We've talked about sex-and from the very beginning he knew that i didn't just want that. he's been with quite a few girls and he knows that im a virgin. he says that that doesnt matter to him. he's also mentioned quite a few times at how he 'wants me so bad but doesnt want to cross any boundaries'.i said to him what just wanting sex? and he was like 'no,no. i dont know how else to prove that thats not what im wanting.' For the past week he hasnt talked to me and Id got to the point where i was determined to forget about him - im sick of being mucked about by him. as i got home last night i saw him and he was askin me about what the 'important chat' was that id wanted to have with him. i refused to have it then cos i think he'd had a few to drink. anyway, i confronted him bout the whole ignorin me thing online - he said his internet hadnt been workin - not true! i said well is ur phone broken? he was like - ive got no credit -im on a student budget! then i confronted him about the whole ignoring me last weekend at the xmas ball (which he'd said he'd see me there) and he said that he wasnt ignoring me but just didnt want to interrupt me! i said to him at the end of the conversation last night that he's got alot of making up to do...and he was like i can do anything you want now to make it up...and i was just like 'no'. he then said 'well we can talk about it tomorrow if you want...' so i was like 'yeah ok'. So now, basically....im confused as to what he's wanting and what i should do....i just don't know...i just cant be bothered with his muckin me about. but i do really like him and now that he spoke to me last night now i really dont know what he's wanting....would love any hints/advice!
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