I think you need to play hard to get with this girl right now. I think you need to go out on a date with another woman like tomorrow if you can do it. Firstly realize that I say this because you say that you are “seeing” this girl which to me means that you have just only dated once or twice.

You know damn well that these other guys would take her in a New York minuet (which is a second by the way) if they had a chance but she isn’t interested in them because they are all generally lame. They all ready showed their hand and pussed out. They are not a challenge anymore. You do not want to be like them. It is good that you didn’t let it show that it bothered you. She should know that it does bother you though. She instinctively probably knows that but you have to make sure that she knows that you are a strong man who doesn’t want “his girl” hanging all over other guys. The problem with this is she probably does not see herself as “your girl.” That’s why not showing your ass (getting upset in public) about it was a good thing.

Here is how you let her know that it bugs you. You first date someone else for a full night and make sure that she knows about it. The best way to let her know about it is to tell her straight up that your gona go out with so in so on whatever night. She will get highly upset and probably make a big scene. You play it strong and cool and pull her close to you and say “hey look, she’s my friend and we are going out.” Do not get caught up in whatever big discussion that she wants to have about it, if she continues to go off on you and be an ass, just walk away and say, I’ll talk to you later.

Your date with so in so will probably suck, but do your best to actually have a good time. You should never exclusively date only once chick unless you are intimate with her. Why? Because you always need to be a challenge to them until they totally commit to only wanting to be with you.

A day or two later (she will probably not call you but wait for you to call her) call her up and act like nothing is wrong at all and just ask her how her day was. Have a regular talk and never bring up the other girl. If she asks you about it, just say that you had a good time, that’s it. No details. It’s none of her damn business anyway is it? Don’t let her hang up though without asking to go out with her again real soon.

Hot chicks will always have guys all over them, it is just nature man, and yes it will always bug you too. What you need is control. You have to use your brain and think about what you want, not what she wants. Sounds ass backwards I know, but look at it like this.

Women want a man who is the following.
A challenge
Exciting
A mystery
Sexy
And strong willed.

If you were all these things what would you do right now? (plays elevator music)
1. You would not talk about yourself too much
2. You would date other people even if it bugged them until they (not you) make it clear that they want only you.
3. You would work out, even if they had to just sit there and watch, or find something else to do, but hopefully plan your work out time so this doesn’t happen.
4. You would not put up with your girl flirting with other guys while dating you. (The catch is you can’t blow up about it either until it is completely understood that she is your girl)

The point is you have to think kind of selfish and what you want out of life, dating, and women. Strangely enough, they actually like their man to know what he wants, go after it, and not compromise. They just want to be the one that you want, go after, and not compromise about.

Good luck, go to askmen.com for advice about it from dr. love