Why censor the word a-s-s-h-o-l-e but not f-u-c-k? The mods have issues with anal sex.

You're the a**hole. You should've just left it at your first conversation with her and gone on about your business, whatever it turned out to be. You should NOT have harangued her about calling you. If you had done that, she might now be the one wondering whether she was a**hole. As it is, you look like one controlling m-f.

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