Thanks for your advice but iv'e already tried talking to her and it doesn't work. There were a few blips in the relationship though. Like we split up after about 3 months for 2 weeks then got back together.
Then last year about march i broke it off with her. But then missed her too much after about 3 to 4 months so i asked her back. The relationship kind of got weird after that cause i didn't know if we were back together properly or not. But in saying that, we had a really good time during this period. I'm guess i'm finding it difficult to come to the realization that its over and there is no getting back from here.