So we had a talk tonight, thats basically what I told him. I like him, but given the recent chain of events, my history with long distance relationships, and my upcoming move ( did tell him by the way about that before ) he was very understanding. I also told him that I dont want to be unfair to him and while I would like to continue hanging out and spending time together I dont want to give him false hopes. I have my mind set on this job, and I know I am not emotionally ready for a serious relsationship right now. It was pretty nice though, he was really understanding... even though I am sure it was hard for him I am glad I was honest... I would like the same in return. Thanks everyone.