I’m not saying don’t tell her how great she looks. I am saying don’t focus 4 days ahead of time every darn word you are going to say to her. Tone you have to remember that this guy is 16, just the fact that he is worried about every word he is going to say to her is not good. Do you really think he will deliver that line the way you would. Would you plan 4 days ahead how your going to tell a gilr how pretty she looks? No of course not.

What you need to be doing is focusing on you and the dance. Is your suit ready? How is the car running? Have you been practicing dancing? Do you have a gift for her? How are you going to surprise her during the dance. Do you have anything else planned. This is where you confidence during the night will come from. Do not focus on exactly which word you are going to use to tell her how pretty she is.

Tone I agree that every guy should have the confidence to say to women what they really want to say, which is exactly why planning it ahead of time is a bad idea. You have a fit body and are older and can say something like that and not think twice about it, do you really think this 16 year old can do that? No I don’t think so. He posted on here this one line just to get the confidence to say it. That’s part of the reason that he shouldn’t What he should be doing at 16 is doing the things that will develop the confidence to have a good time at this dance.