i need some advice about this guy i like and have known for about two months. we met at work and only did a couple of shifts together but from the first day i kinda figured he liked me (he was pretty full on teasing and flirting). After the 4th time we met he gave me his number and asked me out but i couldnt go that time. so from then on he continually messaged me (to the point where it freaked me out) saying how he really likes me and when i would be free to see him. i met up with him a few days later and right up to the moment i arrived he kept contacting me saying where are you, are you i still coming etc so by this stage i felt a bit uncomfortable cause it was getting obsessive! we hung out for a bit but i left on bad terms as i wasnt warming up to him as much as he would of liked. i decided to let it cool down for a week or so and the last i heard of him he said it was cool if i didnt like him we could just stay friends.

but two weeks later when i contacted him recently and he said he didnt know who i was! so either he was playing dumb or he deleted my number from his phone. when he realised it was me, he was nice but didnt seem overly excited to hear from me. i dont understand his what to do cause i stil have to work with the guy and want to fix things. it seems that he either really liked me and i hurt him or he was just after me for a good time and when he realised i wasnt that kinda girl he moved on. i've never met a guy that is so obsessive the way he was. perhaps he had some bad experience with girls playing him before? hes pretty good looking and has a few girls after him (i know this cause he turned them away and asked me out instead) so its not like he cant get a girlfriend easily. has anyone been in a similar situation? would really appreciate other guys feedback too. thanks