For serious, vasthti. You can't just tell someone "you're going to move to me." One person has to be the one to give in to the move. It sounds like neither of you really thought that out beforehand. I mean if she already said she was going to move, she must not have been too committed to that. Why can't you move?

And another thing, I can't believe you got engaged BEFORE you moved. That's nuts. In a LDR, it's best to be together (whether it be close to each other or with each other) before you take that next step of engagement.

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