what? better to do it in front of your gf than behind your gf's back!!! if the dude is with the girl alone or without his gf and asks the girl to pull her pants down? now THAT'S messed up. red flags, red flags!

but if your gf is there and some other friends are there...and you're having a good time getting tipsy...you talk about panties...and someone asks someone else to whip their panty out, you know it was all in good fun among friends.

what's the big deal?