go, you gotta show up...

go hang out with her and her friend. be cool...be nice...be fun to her and the friend. watch how the interact...pay attention to how she interacts with you around this guy.

here's the clincher: in almost every case where a girls been crushin on me...and we're not yet a couple...and we're hanging out with other people...you know what the girls done? almost every time (maybe ever time, i can't think of an exception off the top of my head), at the end of the nite, when people are parting ways...i'm the last one to leave. she wants me to be the last person she sees that night. have just a tiny bit of alone time together...whether it be 10 minutes or several hours.

don't go out of your way to make sure you're the last person to leave...don't try to force alone time with her. if she likes you, she'll make sure it happens...somehow. that's how it's always gone down with me. i never tried...but she subtilely put myself and others in a situation where i was the last person with her. we could be hanging with some guy(s) she knows...or her girl-friends...whatever...i was the last person she saw that night. and in the sitations i'm thinking of, we weren't dating or doing ANYTHING yet...just friends...but between that and many other signs, you figure out she's crushin on ya...

money...