Originally Posted by Jog
I don't know i'm crazy or what, I just can't stop thinking of her...she's driving me crazy
OK, so i'm 18 and I finally decided to get a driving licence. So now, i'm studying in the driving school and there's that girl who's driving me crazy, I mean it's love at the first sight or what ? I had girlfriends before, but I never felt anything like that to them...
At the start I didn't pay much attention to her, because I thought that she is much older than me, I thought she is like 23 or 24, but about a week ago I accidentally found out that she is 18 too, and now I'm thinking about her all the time and we are drivng home on the same bus. I want to talk to her, but I can't because she is allways with her friends there (exept when we're in the bus) and I'm a little bit shy, because of her friends. I'm kindda shy person...
The only time I can talk to her is on the bus, but what should I say ? Something like "Hey, we're learning in the same driving school" imho that sounds a little bit stupid. I had two girlfriends in my life and with both of them my friends introduced me and the we went on. But what shoud I say to totally unfamiliar person ???
And the worst thing is that I have only a week !!! After a week I have an exam and I most probably won't ever see her again after that...What should I do ? HEEEEEEEEEEEEELP

maybe I should just forget her, after all I don't even know her. Or maybe I should try something...but what...

I just spent the last hour typing up nearly two pages and I lost it because the system logged me out or something

Here it is again but in a nutshell......
The best advise I saw so far is from Lloyd95, "Man up." I would take his advise. I will respond to some of your comments and throw some wisdom your way. Just out of cerousity, how did you accidently find out her age? Secondly, what did you say to the other two women when you were intruduced? Those two girls were unfamiliar, of course you know what to say. You can't talk to her at school because she is with her friends? Wrong! Your kinda a shy person? Wrong again! your not shy, you had girlfriends in the past. You have whats known as a fear. Everytime you see her, these questions are going through you head, "what if she has a boyfriend" "what if she laughs at me" and etc. One of the best ways to overcome your fears is to do what you fear. This is not the only way to overcome fear but its very efficent and it works. Try it! I assume she is a geogrous woman with a perfect body?
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maybe I should just forget her, after all I don't even know her."
lol your making me laugh, you gonna give up on something before you even start. I know you have more "Man" in you, correct me if im wrong? Now for the wisdom. Single beautiful women will wear rings to ward off "wussies" but a "Man" will know better then that and approach her and possibly get a hot date. Women will also often lie about having a boyfriend when they are single to weave out the "wussies". Whats my point? Glad you asked. Guys will have ressistance to approaching women because he might see a ring on her, she might be a perfect 10, she may be lying about a boyfriend and etc. You have to overcome all of the obstacles(including good looks and body) that she is throwing at you and be able to speak to her. This is what seperates the "Men" from the "wussies." A man will get past the obstacles and a wussie will trip and fall on his ass many times over, not even try and run as far away from her as he can to his Mommas house for blueberry muffin and ask her to put ice on his red ass. Follow me? You may be wondering how to get past the obsticles. Simple. Change the mind set that your in. When I get email addresses from beautiful women strangers, this is whats going through my head, There are alot of obstacles that are in my way but shes going to try harder then that to stop me from approaching her. I'm a "Man" and I know better then that. I also try to avoid looking at a womans hair if its nice and her figure because that will make it harder to talk to her. Pretend your talking to a guy if that helps, do anything that helps! It might be hard talking to her on the bus with all those other people around. Your best bet is at the school. Think of a way to get her away from her friends and alone with you. Be creative, the sky is the limit! You can probably say something like, "excuse me mam, can you come over here for a second and help me with something?" or anything else to that extent. Have a serous face on so that nothing looks suspicious. Once the two of you are alone, drop your "game" on her. Get her email and phone number and ride back home together on the bus after school. Obviously its not gonna be that easy. PM me or post on this forum before you do anything. Most likely your gonna screw everything up. GOOD LUCK!