Alice, the only comment I will take back is the part about rape. I was tired when I wrote it. I do believe many women put themselves in that situation. They get wasted off their asses or go home with strangers. It's also not uncommon for women to sleep with a guy and later say he raped her. Even if a guy is proven innocent, he still carries the stigma of "rapist" for the rest of his life. I apologize to every woman who has been an unfortunate victim of rape.