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Old 01-02-06, 08:58 AM
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you're not at a club or bar or party...you don't have to score a number within 10 minutes, half hour, or 2 hours of meeting them. you're in high school...you can work them over slowly over a few days...or a week...or 2 weeks if you have to.

so...if you see someone attractive, just start talking to them...the same way you start talking to ANY stranger...guy, girl, adult, or anyone other stranger that you would normally not ask out. get to know them...let them get to know you...then if you feel it, ask her out, ask for her number, whatever.

if you wanna get numbers via the shotgun method...like at a club or whatever...that'd work too...but i'm just sayin, you don't gotta do that in most high school settings. that's harder in high school because you need an EXCUSE to talk to the girl...you don't need an excuse at a bar/club/party. so find an excuse to talk to her...it's easy if she's in one of your classes. it's hard if she's in none of our classes or anything...she's just some random person you see in the halls every once in a while. then you need to try hard to find an excuse...like, if you see her with some textbook for a class, is it a class you've taken or will take? excuse to say something. is she wearing an interesting shirt? like a Penn State shirt...or some band...or whatever. excuse to talk to her. if you notice ANYTHING with which you can identify, that's you're excuse. go from there...quickly create some sort of positive rapport...then ask her out or ask for a number.
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