I would agree with you except for the tone of the way her friend told me that she "needed one". Young women do not hide their disdain very well, it was obvious the way that she said it to me that I should have known that she need a break or had to leave. She said it too me like it was my fault that her friend "needed a break."

I didn't add that the only reason that we had a decent time in the restaurant was because we instinctively found an "out of the way" table and the more our waitress was absent the better our time got because she wasn't around to destroy it.

But yeah man thanks for the comment about understanding, it something people who have been there just don't talk about and all you can do is just sympathize if you’ve been there.

Thanks