The fact that you have been scarred by prior relationships does not make you homosexual. I guess I am thinking that it would be nice if you were actually attracted to men in that way before you pursued anything rather than experiment with a man who is unambiguous about his sexual orientation and may become attached to you.

Honestly, it doesn't sound like you are gay to me - just lonely - but I could be wrong. Do you have an otherwise active social life?

By the way - weekends are slow around here. You may not get many responses on the weekends...

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