Well, being very shy is okay. So is being inexperienced.

Myself...I would probably feel uncomfortable with a guy who was like this...just because...if things didn't work out...I think that he would put more stock into things than me...and I wouldn't want to be his first adn first to break his heart, etc....as a guy like that I would think would be extremely sensitive. Not a bad thing - just a perspective.

Start asking girls to do stuff with you, even just as friends...without pressure to "do" anything off the bat.

Get involved in more social groups and activities that have people from both sexes. A co-ed sport, or a book club, or theatre group, photography club...something that interests you that has people from both sexes. Then ... when involved with teh club...try to get involved in many aspects of it...this will help you out I think, if you don't already have a large social network.