lilwing.

I have NO sympathy for you.

You're with a 14 year old girl who is ASHAMED to claim you as her boyfriend.

She's constantly proving her age by doing stupid immature shit like this to you.

WHAT DO YOU EXPECT??

This isn't the movies man... I know what it's like to be young and you think life is going to play out like some perfect romantic comedy movie. IT'S NOT - real life is full of bullshit. And this girl is definately the defnition of BULLSHIT.

I know my post means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to you and you might think I'm just being an assh*le - but I'm dead ass serious trying to help you here. I just know conventional methods will not get through to you because you'll just respond with "I know I love her I know she loves me blah blah we are so perfect yadda yadda" so I have to be a lil rough with ya.

The only thing you can do to help BOTH her and yourself is to rid yourselves of this doomed relationship. And that's my honest opinion. Take it for what it's worth. Sadly - I think you'll just have to learn the hard way, like we all did. =/