Can you accept the fact that she may never want to be with you again....but that maybe she wants to be your friend? Can you handle a friendship with her?

It sounds to me like you two have been thru alot....and even though things didn't work out well with the two of you together......maybe friendship is the way to go.....if you can handle that.

If you can....then hang out with her....but you have to realize she has moved on... Don't expect anything to happen... Just go with the flow.

If honestly its bothering you being around her so much......and with this other guy in the picture....then it might be better to just distance yourself from her. If you do.....let her know your reasons.....truthfully. Maybe then she will understand where your coming from... and won't take it as your trying to cut her off becuz you don't care... but becuz you DO care.

Then whatever happens after that.....will tell you how much you mean to her. IF she wants to be with you again....she will come back. If not....then at least you weren't wasting your time in the meantime...dwelling on something that may or may not ever happen again....

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