notes taken. Damn you're easy with flinging around judgement.....seen Only_Virgins do it, but I reckon he's just some bloke who feels like he needs to vent some of his real life frustrations on the net. You on the other hand I would've thought a bit better from reading your other posts. Ah well, who gives a crap anyway.

In reply to the OP, I'd consider cheating the end of the line as well. The fact that you have strong feelings for her is pretty logical seeing as you have yourself invested in the relationship to a very high degree. I think trust is the basis of a long term relationship, and when that's broken, there's a whole lot of work to be done to rework a semblance of the relationship you had before the issue. What you should ask yourself is if you think it's worth it to work for a relationship that probably isn't going to feel like it used to. If you are willing to make that compromise, then by all means go for it. Personally I don't think I could, even when knowing full well what kind of hurt lurks around the corner when deciding to break up the relationship.

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